Most of the strangest conflicts in my life have been over sex. How well are you doing it? Who's doing it to whom? Do you want me to do it? Did you want me to do more?
Am I capable of doing more? Can you move while we do this? Why don't you want to talk while/during/after we do this? Are you lying just to please me? Are you pleasing me -- and it's all a lie? Do you care? Do I?
A "kerfuffle" is a disagreement over something -- resulting in two different views of the same situation. Sex breeds kerfuffles. Mostly though, people don't want to and simply don't talk about them. On the opposite side, some people only want to talk about those kerfuffles, even if they only occur infrequently. The amount and extent of these kerfuffles indicates the degree of incompatibility, I think. If the argument is always "the thing" on someone's mind -- than perhaps that's all there is: the argument.
Jennifer Star Trek -- take note!
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